People say that good things come in “threes” or Threesomes, LOL. What about when it comes to your sex life. For the longest time, we have always had the idea that sex should only be between two people, normally a man and a woman. When threesome is explored, it tends to involve two women and a man. Many people are interested in a threesome with 82 percent of the men and 31 percent of the women revealing threesome as one of their sexual fantasies.

Sex between two people can be nerve-wracking, and adding a third partner to it increases the questions of what to and not to do. The clue is in the name; a threesome involves three partners, which means that there is more to it than having sex with one partner. It may not be easy to arrange and make every party happy. Here are some tips You will need to get you started and make it worthwhile.

Before a Threesome: Communication is important

Before having a threesome, you should talk about it until you are tired of talking about it. For a couple, you need to be on a solid ground sexually and communication-wise. Before and during sex, if you are uncomfortable, it is essential to talk about it. Spontaneous sex can be enjoyable, but everyone must have a similar set of expectations from the sexual encounter. You are allowed to talk about the comfort levels of different sexual acts and safer sex practices.

It can get competitive

We all want to win. It is no different when it comes to sex that involves three people. Especially when two men are involved, they may compete on who can make the female orgasm more. The men may compete on their different techniques and how long they can keep it up and mostly the size of their dicks. This may turn on the woman because she gets the attention of two men- but it may be a turn-off and intimidating. A threesome should be fun, so don’t let anyone intimidate you. Threesome is not a sprint and we should allow every partner to go at their own pace.

You will have an awkward moment

Sex with one partner can be messy and awkward. Imagine three people. First of all, it is difficult to have a small talk during a threesome. This is the case mainly for a couple who decide to invite a third party into their bed. Let’s be real; you cannot just jump to bed and get it going. You will feel nervous or embarrassed to get naked with someone new in the room. Try making a joke to break the ice. Feel comfortable communicating and laugh if someone’s ass ends up in your face unexpectedly.

There is no right combination

Whatever you have in mind, there is no right or wrong combination for a threesome. The sexual world is evolving, and threesome can involve two women and one man, two men and one woman. It can also break away from the more laid back norm by incorporating three men, three women, transgender partners and gender fluid (people who do not conform to any gender). The main point is that threesome does not exclude anyone, regardless of their gender. The list of combinations is endless.

Getting jealous is normal

Three is an odd number and this implies that there is a chance all partners will feel left out at some point during the activity. Unavoidably, there will be a time where you may not be the person receiving pleasure or giving pleasure. If you don’t get turned on with two people getting intimate, then it is natural for you to feel jealous. This is very true if the reaction of the man/woman is more intense towards the other person. You need to know that jealousy will strike you at one point in the threesome. For couples, having a threesome, sexual jealousy is something to experience. Try controlling the jealousy and remember that this is a group experience to enhance your sex life. Focus on your pleasure and your partner’s pleasure.

Safe sex is non-negotiable

Don’t leave it to chance. In a threesome, safe sex devices such as condoms are important. You should come out of a threesome with memories, but not unintended pregnancy or STIs. Couples may be okay exchanging bodily fluid, but when it comes to introducing a third party, it is important to discuss safer sex rules before any action takes place. Before joining a threesome, make sure that you all have clean sexual health bills. Prepare everything beforehand. Ensure that someone has condoms handy, or that female members are using some form of contraception.

Focus on pleasuring everyone

Threesome requires concentration. It can only be successful if all partners are engaged deeply. Partners need to be open to trying out new things and not only focusing on one partner unless that was the agreement from the start because it can be hot when two people decide to pleasure one person. If you don’t focus on pleasuring everyone, resentments can occur. The best thing to do is to avoid being selfish and pleasure you get pleasured.

Not everyone should participate right away

Like normal sex, everyone should be warmed before the main action. So don’t jump right away. Not everyone has to participate right away. One person should be okay doing minimal action while the two people turn each other on. This can be a good thing, especially when a stranger joins a couple. Just go with the flow a remember watching and touching yourself can be as fun as actively participating.

If you are to embark on this wonderful experience, remember it is all about fun. Situations may be different, but the tips above can prepare you well. Porn may paint a perfect picture, but go into it knowing that it may not be the same in real life. This does not mean that threesomes are not worth it. Once you have had open and satisfactory communication, get ready for the most memorable sex experience.