A Quick Female Sex Toy Guide

by Bunny Hump on May 29, 2020

There’s no doubt sex toys are much more widely accepted today than before. The idea is to get sex toys on every bedside drawer and taking shame out of sex. Purchasing your first sex toy can be not only exciting but frustrating and intimidating. I know about this basing on my experience a couple of years ago. We can never get enough of sex and pleasuring ourselves. Additionally, we always look for ways to spice up our sexual life, whether we are single or in a relationship.

Is it normal for you to use sex toys?

YES! It has come to a point where people are accepting the fact that sex toys are not here to replace anyone. They are tailored on enhancing user pleasure and help you achieve orgasm. I believe that this is a good thing, because although the stigma that surround the sex toys may be waning, the gap of orgasm between men and women is not. That carries the importance of female sex toys. Using sex toys is both healthy and normal activity and there is no shame in using them. Orgasm and masturbation have numerous benefits for females. From lowering our stress levels to easing menstrual cramps and even making us happier, sex toys are all about helping us to get there.

Types of female sex toys

There are different female body parts that need to be stimulated and there is a sex toy for all those parts. Picking your first sex toy doesn’t have to be difficult as there are numerous ways you can select the one that fits you. The main consideration is which body part you are targeting. You are not limited to the clitoris and vagina. This may be the two most common areas for female sex toy, but there are different types of sex toys that you can try. Below is a quick sex toy guide that will give you an idea if some of the best female sex toys and how you can use the sex toys for all different kinds of pleasure.


A dildo is one of the most common female sex toys. Most of its popularity comes down to the fact that it is very versatile. Dildos are non-vibrating that are used for penetration and internal massage. They can have an anatomical design to look like a replica of an actual penis, or they can be non-anatomical with no penis resemblance whatsoever. Dildos have been designed to come in a variety of sizes and shapes. You can get a glass, metal, textured, mini and curved dildo that targets the g-spot. Many females enjoy dildos for vaginal penetration and g-spot stimulation. However, you can get an anal dildo that will penetrate the booty and stimulate the nerve endings there.


There is a buzz that says that no bedroom is complete without a vibrator of some sort. Well, the is because the sex toys are developed with the intention of helping people get an orgasm no matter which part of the body you use it on. A vibrator is an all-inclusive term for any sex toy that vibrates to stimulate erogenous zones of the body.When deciding which vibrator to buy solely relies on which part of the body you like to have stimulated. There are external styles that stimulate the clitoris and internal styles which massage the g-spot and vagina. If you need both internal and external stimulation, you can go for the rabbit vibrators. This has a vibrating external ears, which vibrate against the clitoris, and a shaft to penetrate the vagina so you can get the best of both words.

Clitoral massager

A clitoral massager is one of the top female sex toys you can get when it comes to helping women attain orgasm. About 70% of the women require clitoral stimulation for an orgasm to occur and that is what the clit stimulation toys are tailored to do. There are a variety of clitoral vibes present, ranging from powerful and large wand vibrators to the much smaller bullet vibes. You can use the bullet alone or with a partner as they are very small. Currently there is an increase in the sex toys that mimic using suction and pulsing waves around the clitoris, rather than vibration alone to bring the user to orgasm. There are a lot of clitoral toys to choose from and the best clitoral vibrator is dependent on what you like and how you want to use the toy.

Butt plug

Not all the sex toys are meant for the vagina and the vulva. The butt plugs have seen a big increase in popularity over the past few years. Additionally, butt plugs come in different sizes and shapes and are tailored to create a full feeling in the anus. These beatiful toys bring focus to and help excersize the PC muscle! You can use the but plugs during partnered play or during masturbation to give the body more sensations as your sphincter muscles tighten around the plug. Most people use butt plugs for preparing for anal sex. They stretch and relax the muscles making it easy for a large sex toy or penis to penetrate more comfortably. For more stimulation to your booty, you can also look for a vibrating butt plug. You can also get a tail butt pug for animal role play.

Anal beads

If butt plugs are more intimidating, then you can go for a set of anal beads. Anal beads are a chain of connected spheres starting small and increasing in sizes gradually. It is mainly good for beginners because they can be inserted as far as you feel comfortable. The anal beads stimulate the nerve endings at the opening of the anus. You can also use it during masturbation or with a partner. Try removing the beads slowly before or during an orgasm to make the orgasm more intense.

Nipple clamps

The nipple is one of the erogenous zones of the male and female body. It is often overlooked by sex toys. The nipple clamps are commonly connected with pain rather than pleasure. While this is the case, it comes down to which type of clamp you use. They work by pinching the nipples and restricting the flow of blood to the area. If tugged on when being worn, this can cause some pain, but their main purpose is actually the effect when the clamps are removed. Once you remove the nipple clamps the blood flows to the nipple, creating a rush of endorphins and sensation. After removing the clamps, the nipple becomes responsive to touching, pinching and licking. If you are a beginner, you can look for a style that can be adjusted so you can find the level of pressure you like. You can go for butterfly clamps, alligator and tweezer clamps that can be adjusted.


Handcuffs are a good way for those starting to get into sex toys and bondage play. These sex toys are meant to restraint toys for attaching the wrists to a chair or bedpost or both wrists together. The main point of the handcuffs is to restrict the movement of the other party, therefore heightening the rest of the sensitivity of the body. Additionally, it is a great way to explore dominant and ease into a power play in submissive relationship.

Other sex toys for women

There are other sex toys that you can consider. This includes Kegel balls which are good for pelvic floors. You can also try vibrating panty and finger vibe. The vibrating panty is manly fun and exciting of you are new to sex toys.


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